The King's Rule
/“The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord, / Like the rivers of water; / He turns it wherever He wishes.”
— Proverbs 21:1
Marshall, G. (Executive Producer). (1976). TV series; still shot. In Laverne & Shirley. Henderson Production Company; Paramount Television.
I’m 53 years old and my mom is still telling stories of me sitting in a highchair. Just today, she told the story of me sitting in a highchair at a steakhouse with my grandparents. The waitresses were all wearing short skirts, fishnet stockings and enjoyed flirting with the little boy in the highchair. Every time they would serve me another “Roy Rogers” drink (Coke-a-Cola with grenadine syrup and a maraschino cherry), I would bite the heel of my hand like Lenny Kosnowski when he saw a beautiful woman in the show Laverne & Shirley. I guess I’ve always been expressive of what I was thinking! For better or worse, everyone around me knows what I think.
What is the rule of a king? In practical terms, it simply means someone who is above all other authority structures and can do whatever they want. Whatever they do is “right”. Whatever they say is “law”. They have absolute discretion in their world. They are in complete control of their decisions.
The reality is we are all born into this world with this attitude. A baby cries when it is hungry, needs to be changed or just needs to be held. It is all about us. We have to be taught we are not the center of the world.
That brings into consideration a crazy verse in 1 Corinthians 4:8, “You are already full! You are already rich! You have reigned as kings without us—and indeed I could wish you did reign, that we also might reign with you.”
The reality is most of us are ruled everyday by a multitude of competing obligations. Family, work, debt, promises and obligations are dictated by the world around us in order to fit in. Some are good. Some are not. Yet, there is little doubt we have lost our role as king or queen in our own little universe. We can no longer simply cry and see the world respond to meet our needs.
Yet, Paul challenges the root of our desire; to be kings. And it is not a reproach of our selfishness. For it is often selfishness that leads to the compromises we make in terms of family, work, debt, promises and obligations. We want things now, rather than have to wait for them. We want satisfaction, even if that means we compromise our values. We want to feel loved and accepted. And our selfishness often drives our willingness to compromise for it.
Paul challenges us to stand as kings! To understand we alone are responsible for the positions we take and the decisions we make. There are always consequences. But, contrary to everything the world says, we can take any position or make any decision we like. We are truly kings in that regard. But Paul bemoans the fact that we do not understand this. He wishes we understood that we are already full and rich; so choose to stand! Be a king and don’t back down.
If you understand that, you understand only fear can keep you from being a king in your own life. In other words, only fear can hold you back. Yet, if you understand what Christ has done, you understand, “The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord, / Like the rivers of water; / He turns it wherever He wishes.” (Proverbs 21:1)
Being absolutely free means understanding how and who granted you that freedom. His guidance in your life is not coercion or manipulation, it is the motivation to become everything you were created to be in Him.
We should never be afraid to be who we are in the presence of the Lord. His grace is sufficient for all our failures. Even if that is looking at waitresses and biting the heel of your palm. Honesty is the key to growth. We are kings. We get to choose our path in life. Only fear can hold us back. Only Christ can make us full and rich! Be a king or queen today, and choose to allow Christ to turn the river of your life as He sees fit… BUT CHOOSE HIM!
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